You Need Time to Think

You Need Time to Think

Time to think…about what you want going forward, besides having the divorce finished – hopefully favorably.  How can you carve out time to think when the divorce process has eaten into the free time you used to have?Why is thinking time important? Thinking time...
Is My Wife Crazy?

Is My Wife Crazy?

Maybe she is. Since the term ‘crazy’ is a catchall, knowing what constitutes what you mean by ‘crazy’ is useful because it maps out specific behaviors and traits.  It helps everyone get clear on where normalcy is left behind and crazy comes in.  Both genders can...

How to Use Routine to Steady Your Mood

Uncertainty Emotional mood swings are a difficult but natural part of the divorce process. Contrary to how you may feel, you are not losing your mind.  Your psyche is trying to find a new equilibrium while swaying in response to the inner questions and feelings that...
An Invitation

An Invitation

Getting divorced can mean that your marriage has run its course. It’s a very sad thought for most of us. A wise man once asked me, “Are you complete with your marriage?”  I found the question odd. How is one ‘complete’ with a marriage?...
I Want to Go Far Away Fast

I Want to Go Far Away Fast

Jeff met Marion when he was 28, and she was 24. He was at the start of his flying career, dreaming that one day he’d be a captain with a line in the largest plane in the fleet. That was a long way off, but it was his true north, and he did everything he had to,...